Complaining about millennials has become common place. It would not be too bad except it infects the workplace. As a result, it corrupts how we assess millennial talent. Yet, does this complaining really show signs of getting old?
Behind The Hype About Millennials
Under all of this hype, millennials want the same things workers of all ages want from a job: interesting work, appreciation from bosses, rewards for good work and opportunities to advance.
That doesn’t mean millennials aren’t problems though. Don’t be silly. They’re young people. Young people are always problems for their older peers, always have, always will be. It’s just today we have become better at making money on this age old bias.
The Age-Old Bias Toward Young People
Today, we complain millennials:
- Are glued to their phones. Yesteryear, our parents complained we were glued to the television.
- Don’t know how to write because they shorten everything. Yesteryear, our parents complained the same because we used so much slang like “square,” “cool” and “hip.”
- Lack discipline and respect, showing up late and giving no notice. Yesteryear, our parents cited the same because we showed no respect for social conventions by wearing “sloppy” clothes and hair.
Complaining about Millennials is Complaining about Change
As we hear often, people don’t like change. Young people are change though. Thus, it’s easy to project our dislike of change onto them. Complaining about millennials is just one form.
Another form of projecting this dislike, is wrongly assessing millennial talent. It should be done in today’s context, not in the context of some idyllic vision of how things were.
People often think of aging as a physical, mental or emotional thing. It’s really about change though. Life refreshes every day, literally and figuratively.
That means there’s a correlation between aging and change. As people age, they complain more about change. Millennials are change. Makes sense then that complaining about millennials shows signs of getting old.
Yet, the above song injects humor into all this as the young adults conclude:
Parents forgive all we do
For someday we’ll suffer too,
When in turn we will groan
At some children of our own.
Perhaps that’s why, when my brothers and I were at our worse, my parents would wish that we would have children just like us.